Deciding to see a psychologist can feel like a big step, especially if you’re not sure what to expect. Many people worry they’ll be judged, that they have to “be really bad” to justify coming, or that they’ll be pushed to talk about things they don’t feel ready for. Knowing what an initial session looks like can make it easier to take that first step.

The first session is mainly about getting to know you and understanding what has brought you here. We’ll talk about your sport, your background, what’s going well, and what you’d like to be different. We’ll also cover practicalities: confidentiality, how sessions work online or in person in Stirling, how often we might meet, and how we’ll know whether things are moving in the right direction.

You’re free to share as much or as little as feels comfortable at your own pace. Many people arrive with a mixture of performance and broader life issues – for example, confidence in competition, stress from study or work, and worries about mental health. We’ll work together to prioritise, so the focus fits your goals and situation.

By the end of the first session, the aim is that you have a clearer picture of what’s going on, some initial ideas or tools to try out, and a sense of whether working together feels like a good fit. There is no obligation to book more sessions if it doesn’t feel right. If it does, we can agree a plan – short, focused work around a specific issue, or longer‑term support across a season or key transition.

If you’re considering sport psychology and feel unsure, you’re welcome to contact me with any questions or to arrange an initial session to see how it feels in practice.